Difference between Toilet training and toilet timing

If you have a toddler, you might be wondering when and how to start toilet training them. You might also be confused by the terms toilet training and toilet timing, and what they mean for you and your child. In this blog post, I will explain the difference between these two concepts, and give you some tips on how to make the process easier and more enjoyable for everyone.-

 

Toilet training and toilet timing are two different things. Toilet training is the process by which you teach your child to use the toilet, whereas toilet timing is when you put them on a schedule so they know when it’s time to go. Toilet training typically starts at around 2 years old but can take as long as 5 or 6 years old for some kids.-

 

Toilet training involves active participation on the part of the child. To toilet train a child requires a child to have some degree of control over his bowel and bladder to delay emptying. It also requires a child to be able to recognize the signs of needing to go, communicate their need, and cooperate with the process. Toilet training is a skill that develops gradually over time, and depends on the child's physical, cognitive, and emotional readiness.-

 

Toilet timing, on the other hand, is when you put your child on the toilet at regular intervals or when you think they might need to go. This can be done from birth or any age, but it does not mean that your child is toilet trained. Toilet timing is more of a habit than a skill, and it does not require much involvement from the child. Toilet timing can be helpful in reducing diaper use and preparing your child for toilet training, but it is not a substitute for it.-

 

So how do you know when your child is ready for toilet training? There are some signs that indicate that your child has reached the developmental stage where they can start learning to use the toilet. These include:

 

- Being able to walk, put on and remove clothing, and follow parental instruction

- Having expressive language and being able to say words like "pee", "poo", or "toilet"

- Being aware of a full bladder or rectum and showing discomfort or interest when they wet or soil themselves

- Demonstrating dissatisfaction with a soiled diaper and wanting to be changed

- Showing curiosity or imitation of toileting behavior of others-

- Expressing desire to use the toilet or wear underwear

- Demonstrating bladder or bowel control by staying dry or holding their poop for longer periods

 

If your child shows most of these signs, you can start introducing them to the toilet and encouraging them to use it. However, you should not force or pressure your child to toilet train if they are not ready or willing. This can cause anxiety, resistance, or regression in your child, and make the process longer and harder for both of you.-

 

Here are some tips on how to make toilet training easier and more fun for you and your child:

 

- Choose a method that suits your family's lifestyle and preferences. There is no one right way to toilet train a child, and different methods work for different children. Some parents prefer a structured approach with a set schedule and rewards, while others prefer a more relaxed approach that follows the child's cues and pace. You can also use a combination of methods or adapt them as you go along.-

- Use positive reinforcement and praise your child for their efforts and achievements. Avoid scolding, shaming, or punishing your child for accidents or mistakes. This can damage their self-esteem and motivation, and make them afraid or ashamed of using the toilet.-

- Make the toilet accessible and comfortable for your child. You can use a potty chair, a seat adapter, or a step stool to help your child reach and sit on the toilet. You can also decorate the toilet area with stickers, posters, or toys to make it more appealing and inviting for your child.-

- Involve your child in the process and let them have some choice and control. You can let your child choose their own underwear, potty chair, or reward system. You can also let them flush the toilet, wash their hands, or help with changing their clothes.-

- Be patient and consistent with your child. Toilet training is a learning process that takes time and practice. Your child will have accidents and setbacks along the way, but that is normal and expected. Do not give up or switch methods too often, as this can confuse your child and delay their progress.

- Seek professional help if you have any concerns or questions about your child's toilet training. If your child has any medical conditions that affect their bowel or bladder function, such as constipation, urinary tract infections, or developmental delays, you should consult your doctor before starting toilet training. -